Writing your vows

If you are writing your vows and are having a difficult time getting started I have a few tips for you.

  • Start by asking yourself, “What will I bring to this marriage?”
  • Refer to your most memorable times as a couple.
  • Be alone when writing your vows.
  • Be sure to keep your vows in a safe place.
  • Get inspiration from a card, note or photo.
  • Go to https://www.theknot.com/content/real-couple-vows You will find inspiration from couples and hopeful make writing your vows a task that is completed easily.
  • Also, take a look at our previous post Memorable Vows and Promises.

You may want to keep a notebook close by to jot down your thoughts. When you have lots of material start writing your vows.

Also, do you want your vows written in a small book, on a single piece of paper, on your phone or just wing it? If you are winging it, your vows should be more than 1 minute but less than 3. Vows are a very personal exchange of heartfelt, funny and sentimental statements that could result in lots of laughs. If tears are expected, be ready with a tissue or handkerchief.